The Safe Love Method™
For Women Ready to attract and choose the kind of love that lasts — safe, steady, and true.
The Safe Love Method™ — A trauma-informed path to secure, lasting love in 12 weeks.
Without Chasing, Settling, Shrinking or Waiting Another 1 - 5 Years to Feel Safe in Love
Next Program Begins January 15, 2025!
For Women Ready to attract and choose the kind of love that lasts — safe, steady, and true.
The Safe Love Method™ - A trauma-informed path to secure, lasting love in 12 weeks
Without Chasing, Settling, Shrinking or Waiting Another Year For Love
STOP Dating Unavailable Men
STOP Attracting Unhealthy Relationships
STOP Being Comfortably Single
START Dating a High Quality Man
START Having Healthy & Fulfilling Love
START Getting What You Deserve
THE PATH TO Safe love
You’re a successful, independent woman with a beautiful
life—but deep down, you long for a soul-level connection
with a conscious, masculine man.
You’ve done the work.
You’ve read the books, attended the workshops, and gained profound self-awareness...
But when it comes to love, something still feels off...
The path to safe love
You’re a successful, independent woman with a beautiful
life—but deep down, you long for a soul-level connection
with a conscious, masculine man.
You’ve done the work.
You’ve read the books, attended the workshops, and gained profound self-awareness...
But when it comes to love, something still feels off...
You MAY STILL
FIND YOURSELF:
You MAY STILL FIND YOURSELF:
💔 Struggling to fully trust men, keeping your guard up and relying on independence to stay safe.
😶 Holding back your true feelings, avoiding vulnerability out of fear of being too much.
🤝 Over giving in relationships—tolerating crumbs, poor treatment, or emotional unavailability.
🧘♀️ Choosing peace over passion, staying single for years to avoid potential chaos.
🤯 Doubting your intuition, unsure whether it’s wisdom or old wounds making the call.
🤢 Attracting men who lack purpose, polarity, or presence—
"nice guys" who feel more passive than powerful.
🧊 Feeling overly rigid or controlling, unable to relax into your feminine essence.
❤️🩹 Carrying bitterness or heartbreak from the past, unable to fully move forward.
🔁 Getting stuck in unhealthy patterns—either staying too long or letting the wrong ones in too easily.
💔 Struggling to fully trust
men, keeping your guard up
and relying on independence
to stay safe.
😶 Holding back your true
feelings, avoiding
vulnerability out of fear of
being too much.
🤝 Over giving in relationships
—tolerating crumbs, poor
treatment, or emotional
unavailability.
🧘♀️ Choosing peace over
passion, staying single for
years to avoid potential chaos.
🤯 Doubting your intuition,
unsure whether it’s wisdom or
old wounds making the call.
🤢 Attracting men who lack
purpose, polarity, or presence
"nice guys" who feel more
passive than powerful.
🧊 Feeling overly rigid or
controlling, unable to relax
into your feminine essence.
❤️🩹 Carrying bitterness or
heartbreak from the past,
unable to fully move forward.
🔁 Getting stuck in unhealthy
patterns—either staying too
long or letting the wrong ones
in too easily.
The Safe love method bridges the missing gap:
This program
bridges the
missing gap:
Your body. Your nervous system. Your energetic presence.
Your ability to truly feel safe and empowered in your feminine.
Your body. Your nervous
system. Your energetic
presence. Your ability to truly
feel safe and empowered in
your feminine.
ELEVATE YOUR AWARENESS
Rewire your nervous system and learn self-regulation tools to create a sense of safety with yourself instead of outsourcing it to men.
ALIGN YOUR HEART
Using somatics, self-care, and nervous system regulation, we help you shift from simply knowing the right thing to actually embodying a new way of relating—with yourself, and with men.
FEMININE EMBODIMENT
You’ll learn how to honor your energy, express your needs, hold your boundaries, and activate your radiance. When you deeply value yourself, it changes who you attract—and who you no longer entertain.
EMOTIONAL MATURITY
You’ll stop investing in potential. You’ll start trusting your intuition. You’ll learn to see through charm, emotional chaos, and words that don’t align with action. And you’ll become the woman who only chooses healthy, available, masculine love.
THIS IS NOT A DATING STRATEGY:
THIS IS A RECLAMATIOn
THIS IS NOT A DATING STRATEGY:
THIS IS A RECLAMATIOn
The Safe Love Method is a transformational 3-month journey designed for successful, self-aware women who are ready to break free from unhealthy relationship patterns, reconnect to their feminine power, and call in the partnership they’ve always known was possible.
Led by Master Coaches Joshua Wenner and Stefanos Stifandos and supported by an expert team of trauma-informed, somatic, and spiritual coaches, this experience is unlike anything you’ve tried before.
This is the work that brings you home to yourself—so you stop settling for scraps of connection and start attracting love that is deep, conscious, and nourishing.
The Safe Love Method™ is a transformational 4-month journey designed for successful, self-aware women who are ready to break free from unhealthy relationship patterns, reconnect to their feminine power, and call in the partnership they’ve always known was possible.
Led by Master Coaches Joshua Wenner and Stefanos Stifandos and supported by an expert team of trauma-informed, somatic, and spiritual coaches, this experience is unlike anything you’ve tried before.
This is the work that brings you home to yourself—so you stop settling for scraps of connection and start attracting love that is deep, conscious, and nourishing.
DON't TAKE IT FROM ME -
HEAR WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING
DON't TAKE IT FROM
ME - HEAR WHAT
OTHERS ARE SAYING
sarah norvilas
Entrepreneur
“Josh has this exceptional way of making everyone feel really safe & seen. As a woman who has coached with him, Josh has the ability to create such a safe space that allows you to open up because it feels really easy to be seen, heard & held.”
ashley hann
Entrepreneur
“Josh is such a genuine heart centered man who embodies his sacred masculine. He holds such a safe space for women like me to feel safe, seen, witnessed, heard & vulnerable. If you have the opportunity to work with Josh I highly recommend it. “
ANDREA
“I have so many wonderful things to say about Josh & this program. This is such a comfy, safe place for all women. I've learned so much even though I read & have so much knowledge already”.
NOEL
“Josh is such an incredible coach and I'm so grateful for him. He is an embodiment of a healthy, masculine man. I am so glad I joined this, it's helped immensely. He has a beautiful ability you have to see.“
LYDIA
“Before joining I was in a state of transition, now I feel connected & supported in ways I never thought possible. This has been life changing and I highly recommend you step into it.“
MEET YOUR MENTORS
Andrea Monier
safe love program Coach
Andrea Monier
Sovereign Woman Coach
Andrea brings a rich background in meditation, spiritual counseling, and Internal Family Systems (IFS)/parts work. As a coach in the Sovereign Woman program, she helps women heal their relationship with their own hearts in order to attract emotionally healthy, sovereign men.
Andrea’s background in storytelling gives her a deep understanding of the inner psyche. She guides clients with compassion and clarity as they integrate the “characters” or parts within themselves, helping them step into wholeness,
self-trust, and true inner alignment.
Andrea brings a rich background in meditation, spiritual counseling, and Internal Family Systems (IFS)/parts work. As a coach in the Sovereign Woman program, she helps women heal their relationship with their own hearts in order to attract emotionally healthy, sovereign men.
Andrea’s background in storytelling gives her a deep understanding of the inner psyche. She guides clients with compassion and clarity as they integrate the “characters” or parts within themselves, helping them step into wholeness,
self-trust, and true inner alignment.
Kelly O'Loughlin,
M.Ed., CPMCP – Safe love program Coach
Kelly holds a Master’s in Counseling and Sport Psychology and brings over two decades of experience in personal development and somatic healing. She’s also a certified coach and advisor with Dr. Shefali Tsabary’s Conscious Parenting Institute.
In Sovereign Woman, Kelly blends Western psychology, Eastern philosophy, and body-based practices to help women reconnect with their inner wisdom, reclaim their power, and regulate their nervous systems so they can stop living in their heads and start trusting their bodies again. Her style is rooted in warmth, humor, and embodied truth.
Kelly O'Loughlin,
M.Ed., CPMCP – Sovereign Woman Coach
Kelly holds a Master’s in Counseling and Sport Psychology and brings over two decades of experience in personal development and somatic healing. She’s also a certified coach and advisor with Dr. Shefali Tsabary’s Conscious Parenting Institute.
In Sovereign Woman, Kelly blends Western psychology, Eastern philosophy, and body-based practices to help women reconnect with their inner wisdom, reclaim their power, and regulate their nervous systems so they can stop living in their heads and start trusting their bodies again. Her style is rooted in warmth, humor, and embodied truth.
Joshua Wenner
Dating & Relationship Coach
Joshua is a relationship coach and emotional resilience expert who helps high-achieving women heal their relationship with the masculine so they can feel safe, soften, and trust love again.
With over 20 years of experience in trauma-informed work and men’s leadership, he offers a grounded, non-romantic masculine presence that allows women to release old patterns and experience being truly met—without having to self-abandon.
His mission is to support women in restoring trust with the masculine, reclaiming their sovereignty, and calling in the conscious, integrated partnership they deserve.
stefanos stifandos
Dating & Relationship Coach
Joshua is a relationship coach and emotional resilience expert who helps high-achieving women heal their relationship with the masculine so they can feel safe, soften, and trust love again.
With over 20 years of experience in trauma-informed work and men’s leadership, he offers a grounded, non-romantic masculine presence that allows women to release old patterns and experience being truly met—without having to self-abandon.
His mission is to support women in restoring trust with the masculine, reclaiming their sovereignty, and calling in the conscious, integrated partnership they deserve.
Joshua Wenner
Dating & Relationship Coach
Joshua is a relationship coach and emotional resilience expert who helps high-achieving women heal their relationship with the masculine so they can feel safe, soften, and trust love again.
With over 20 years of experience in trauma-informed work and men’s leadership, he offers a grounded, non-romantic masculine presence that allows women to release old patterns and experience being truly met—without having to self-abandon.
His mission is to support women in restoring trust with the masculine, reclaiming their sovereignty, and calling in the conscious, integrated partnership they deserve.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN INSIDE
the safe love Method™
This is not just about ideas. It’s about learning to live, love, and
choose differently—starting from within. You’ll learn how to:
This is not just about ideas. It’s about learning to live, love, and choose differently—starting from within. You’ll learn how to:
S - SAFETY
Regulation & Self-Trust
Establish inner safety and self-regulation as the foundation for love.
Module 1: The Science of Safe Love –Learn how your nervous system and attachment patterns shape your attraction so you finally understand why love has felt unstable and begin creating safety from within.
Module 2: Reclaiming Safety in Your Body –Learn somatic grounding and regulation techniques so you can shift out of anxiety and return to calm no matter what is happening around you.
Module 3: Reparenting the Inner You – Learn to meet and soothe the younger parts of you that still crave safety so you stop seeking rescuers or rescuees and become your own emotional anchor.
By the end of this phase, you’ll feel grounded, emotionally regulated, and deeply safe in your own body — no longer needing others to provide the safety you can now create from within.
Phase 2 - A: AWARENESS
Healing Your Blueprint & Releasing the Past
Clear old imprints, make peace with the masculine, and align your energy with healthy love.
Module 4: Healing with the Masculine –Gently release pain, resentment, and mistrust stored in your body from father wounds, heartbreak, or betrayal so you can make peace with the masculine and feel safe to trust and receive again.
Module 5: Energetic Closure & Release –Learn somatic and energetic techniques to clear the emotional residue of past lovers and trauma bonds so you stop feeling tethered to your past and create spaciousness for new, healthy connection.
Module 6: Forgiveness & Freedom –Move from blame and shame into compassion — for yourself and for those who couldn’t meet you so you release emotional weight and return to wholeness, inspired by what’s now possible in love.
By the end of this phase, you’ll no longer feel stuck in your old story. You’ll see your patterns with compassion, not shame — and experience a lightness that allows love to meet you on entirely new terms.
Phase 3 - F: Feminine Embodiment
Attraction, Embodiment & Boundaries
Awaken the softness, intuition, and magnetic energy that naturally draw in emotionally secure men.
Module 7: The Feminine Return –Reclaim the softness, intuition, and emotional aliveness that naturally emerge when your body feels safe so you stop performing or controlling to feel loved and instead radiate confidence, warmth, and presence that draw emotionally available men with ease.
Module 8: Building Self-Trust –Learn to strengthen your inner masculine energy through boundaries, clarity, and follow-through so you trust your intuition and feel secure in your own decisions.
Module 9: The Art of Feminine Invitation – Master the subtle language of attraction that allows men to step forward while you stay anchored in your own energy so you inspire pursuit and deepen connection without forcing, chasing, or abandoning your authenticity.
By the end of this phase, you’ll feel fully alive, radiant, and magnetic — embodying the feminine energy that attracts emotionally secure men and repels inconsistency or games.
Phase 4 - E: Emotional Maturity
Discernment, Devotion & Secure Partnership
Step into the clarity, confidence, and relational mastery needed to build the love you’ve always desired.
Module 10: Clarifying Your Vision & Values –Define your vision for partnership and identify your red, amber, and green flags with clarity so you stop second-guessing what you deserve and immediately recognize alignment or misalignment — saving yourself years of emotional detours.
Module 11: The Stages of Men & Emotional Readiness –Learn how to discern where a man truly is on his emotional maturity journey so you can quickly see whether he’s capable of commitment and avoid heartbreak with men who cannot meet you.
Module 12: Discernment: Words vs. Integration– Master the skill of distinguishing between a man who talks the talk and one who lives it so you stop falling for potential and start choosing partners who are emotionally grounded, self-aware, and ready for real connection.
Module 13: Creating Secure Partnership –Learn how to build a relationship rooted in polarity, safety, and devotion so you no longer fear losing love once you have it — and instead know exactly how to nurture a stable, passionate, ever-deepening partnership.
By the end of this phase, you’ll feel discerning, empowered, and confident in your choices. You’ll attract emotionally available men — and know how to recognize, receive, and sustain secure partnership.
Stabilize your nervous system so you stop defaulting to unaligned partners who feel familiar but are emotionally unsafe
Use somatic tools to finally feel and release the grief, anger, and sadness from childhood and past relationships that keep you stuck in old patterns
Deepen into feminine embodiment practices that reconnect you to your sensuality, playfulness, joy, and radiance
Heal your relationship with the masculine by receiving the validation and energetic apology for the ways men have caused pain
Watch interviews with real, healthy couples to re-pattern your vision of love and gain insight into what conscious relationships require
Clarify you vision & values for a healthy relationship as well as your red flags and yellow flags
Build healthy boundaries that allow you to express your needs, take up space, and stop abandoning yourself to be chosen
BONUS: Participate in live panels with conscious, integrated men so you feel what healthy masculine energy actually feels like in your body
BONUS GUEST MASTERCLASSES
To deepen your embodiment, you’ll gain access to exclusive bonus trainings and masterclasses, including:
The Heroine’s Journey – with Katerina Satori
Conversations with High-Value Integrated Men – featuring Stefanos Sifandos & Allan McGrath
Subtle Dynamics of a Healthy Relationship – with Sam & Michelle Morris
Feminine Pleasure Practice – with Kari Kinkead
Embody Flow Movement – with Ashley Sitterding
Healing the Masculine Within & Without – with Sam Morris & Adam Knight
The Heroine’s Journey
– with Katerina Satori
Conversations with High-Value Integrated Men – featuring Stefanos Sifandos & Allan McGrath
Subtle Dynamics of Healthy Relationship – with Sam & Michelle Morris
Feminine Pleasure Practice
– with Kari Kinkead
Embody Flow Movement
– with Ashley Sitterding
Healing the Masculine Within & Without – with Sam Morris & Adam Knight
What's included:
This container has support and accountability to help you navigate this rite of passage:
This is not just about ideas. It’s about learning to live, love, and choose differently—starting from within. You’ll learn how to:
12 Weekly 60 Min Live Group Coaching Calls with our team of coaches
Skool Community to support each other, build friendships & hold each other accountable
12 Modules of Content to walk you through the process of healing the relationship with yourself & men
(3) 1:1 Coaching Sessions with Safe Love Method coach's Andrea or Kelly
Bonus: Live Masculine Healing with integration men to take ownership for the pain we have caused & apologize on behalf of the masculine
Bonus: Interviews with 3 women from safe love method who are now in healthy relationship to reinforce the content you are learning
Bonus: Multiple Feminine Embodiment Practices from expert women in a range of embodiment practices
The investment for this program is $4,000
Early bird rate is $3,000 until Dec 15th, $3,500 until Dec 31st(Payment Plans Available)
The Heroine’s Journey
– with Katerina Satori
Conversations with High-Value Integrated Men – featuring Stefanos Sifandos & Allan McGrath
Subtle Dynamics of Healthy Relationship – with Sam & Michelle Morris
Feminine Pleasure Practice
– with Kari Kinkead
Embody Flow Movement
– with Ashley Sitterding
Healing the Masculine Within & Without – with Sam Morris & Adam Knight
HEAR MORE TESTIMONIALS
JO
“This is by far the best course I have ever done. It's usually hard for me to stay engaged but not with this program. I've gotten so much out of this. I highly recommend it”.
MICHELLE
“I recommend Joshua's Sovereign Woman program to all of my clients & women friends becuase it is a profound container. I felt 100% supported the entire time. “
KELLY
“It's been such a great experience. As someone committed to my growth I got a ton out of this program & I know you will too. Come join us! "
Our Signature
12-Module
Curriculum
This step-by-step journey is designed to rewire your nervous system, reshape your
attraction patterns, and guide you into a new way of being in love:
Nervous System Attunement & Mastery for Freedom
Somatics: Feeling it to Heal It
Loving the Body to Build Intuition & Self-Worth
Archetypes for Communication & Embodiment
A New Vision for a High-Value Man & Relationship
Breaking Codependency, Setting Boundaries & Repair
The Drama Triangle: No More Victim, Villain, Savior
High-Value vs. Unintegrated Men: Learn to Discern
The Stages of Men: Understanding Their Growth & Readiness
Sex for Love: Conscious Dating & Sacred Intimacy
Activating Feminine Radiance Through Polarity
How to Maintain a Positive, Empowered Relationship Mindset
Investment $4,000
Early Bird $3,000 Until Oct 1 (payment plans available)
Are you ready to reclaim
your radiance and receive
the love you deserve?
You’re not too much. You’re not too late. You’re not broken.
You’ve simply never had a space that
honored your full complexity, power,
and heart—until now.
Are you ready to reclaim
your radiance and receive
the love you deserve?
the safe love method
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